feat: Docker Compose E2E test env, agent fixes, TAP MAC config, testclient binary

- Add docker-compose.yml with server + init + 3 clients + tester
- Add Dockerfile.server (CGO multi-stage) and Dockerfile.client
- Add .dockerignore for efficient builds
- Add cmd/testclient/main.go: full E2E test binary using SDK
- Fix agent handshake loop: only respond to new handshakes
- Add tapInterface.SetMAC() to match agent's generated MAC
- Call SetMAC() in agent SetTAPIP to fix ARP resolution
- Add data-plane debug logging for troubleshooting
- Change config database path to /tmp/data/ for container use
- Add SetMAC stub for non-Linux builds

Dockerfile.server

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+FROM golang:1.26-alpine AS builder
+RUN apk add --no-cache gcc musl-dev
+WORKDIR /src
+COPY . .
+RUN CGO_ENABLED=1 go build -o /zeromesh .
+
+FROM alpine:3.19
+RUN apk add --no-cache iproute2 iptables-legacy
+COPY --from=builder /zeromesh /usr/local/bin/zeromesh
+COPY config.yaml /etc/zeromesh/config.yaml
+EXPOSE 10001 19993/udp
+CMD ["zeromesh", "-config", "/etc/zeromesh/config.yaml"]